9th Year Anniversary

Today marks the 9th year anniversary of Mr. HHH and I.

Yup, we have known each other for the past 9 years.

Let me share a bit on how we got to know each other....(at least I am penning it down where I can also get to read my feelings next time)

We knew each other over IRC when I was still studying in Secondary 3. It was almost the end of the year. That time, he was 20 and still serving his national service. I can still remember the difficult times to meet when he was in NS. Whenever he said he'll book out from camp at 5pm, we planned to meet at 6pm or something.. But he will end up always being late. Even once, I reached the place but he still couldnt book out. Thats how irritating and frustating dating army boys that time. Urghhh!

But, we survived that "ordeal".. And Ive learnt my lesson.. Whenever he's having reservice or anything to do with the army, I will always make sure he is home first before making any plans. haha.. and it worked! Apparently till now the army still havent change the "behaviour" - tak pernah tepati janji! ish...

So then I went poly, and I was in several other relationships with other guys behind his back. But eventually he found out about it and we landed up in a huge fight. Everytime we fought or are unhappy with each other, the words - "lets break up" never ever came out from his mouth. Even when he knew I was 2-timing him.. Only god knows the real reason.

I guessed that time, at such a young age, I dont want to be involved in a very serious relationship. Like my mum always used to say, always give yourself some choices before marriage as marriage is something you keep for the rest of your life.

I eventually stopped all my nonsense at the age of 20. 5 years after knowing him.

I realised 1 thing. Even though the other guys I dated were much good-looking and richer than Mr. HHH, there's no one who can compliment my character. I have cats and I love them so much, till the extent of doing anything for them. But those whom I met never shared the same empathy or love for them, unlike Mr. HHH... That's one example. I have others which I shall not reveal all here...

So then I realised, probably Mr. HHH is the one for me. We compliment a lot of each of our character, the fact that he never initiated any break-up words etc made me realise how matured and patient he was. Once, he told me that he never really minded what I did in the past because I was young. He also wanted me to have a choice before deciding who I want to live with forever.. And he told me at the same age, he was like me tooo...

And thank god, we are still together despite all those that had happened. We even managed to break through my parents "dislike" for him..

What happened was that when I was still in Secondary school, my dad caught us holding hands at the void deck! And since I am the first child and that is the first time all those things started to happen, I got hell BIG TIME!

For the first time in my life I was curfewed, and I was never to see him again... Even though we only knew each other for a couple of months, he held on to the rocky relationship.. And after a long final wait, probably my parents saw how serious he was about me, all what happened after that is history...

I am glad that we are still in this together. People asked, even my siblings asked whether I ever got bored with him. And the answer is NO!

Believe it or not, ever since we met, we have been talking on the phone every single day for the past 9 years! (Prob only minus 4 months when he was in camp and I was in Mecca).. Other than that, we never failed to talk to each other - and I meant long conversations at night! for every night! I really cannot recall what we talked about but there's always something to share! Amazing right?

Anyways, it's only left with 23 more days before we finally will live together as husband and wife. Do help to pray that all will go on well and smooth, insyallah...

Till then, Love!