2nd one?

Recently, there has been conversations from relatives, colleagues etc about having the second one.

What second one?

A second baby.

No matter what you all say, I plan to have my second one when lil Qistina is 3 or 4 years old. Honestly, as much as I enjoy spending time with lil Q, I have to admit that it wasn't easy to juggle between work, husband, baby and own personal time.

Till now, I have not been able to get a decent sleep of 8 hours without interference. 2-3 hours, yes perhaps.

My mum keep telling me that I still have not stayed in my own house yet. Here, living with parents, the only thing I have to do is occasionally help to keep the cats or hang the laundry.

But I guess why the feeling of fatigue arises because of insufficient sleep and my job scope that requires not only travelling, but a lot of speaking as well.

I know some people may think that you might as well get tired, make babies one shot so once you decide to stop, you wont have to go through the entire cycle again. I also heard news of an aunt who is a year older than me, is already pregnant with the second one even though her first is only 10 months old. And she's very happy with the second pregnancy though.

But I like to differ in this matter.

So people, to have the second one is not anytime soon. Let us shower our attention to lil Q first before talking about the second one, ok?